Hormones are released throughout our lives and make us act in a certain way during any situation, be it emotional, stressful, or romantic. During puberty, our hormones are at their peak and slowly and gradually we learn to manage and accept our reactions in our mid-twenties and thirties.
You must be wondering why I’m so involved with our hormones and reactions because a few days back I was sitting in the park and a boy was sitting next to me he was getting nail-bitingly excited, all smiles happy, leg-shaking anxious and I assumed he must be texting his girlfriend or a friend he has a crush on.
I caught him re-reading the messages and overanalyzing all the words and couldn’t help but ask him if there was something I can help him with?
To my surprise, what bothered him was something that I had experienced in the past as well, so I was certainly of some use to him. He wanted to know what the girl meant by the following text message when she sent him a K, Ok, Okk, and Okay. One thing is for sure the three k’s. K, Ok, Okkk, and Okay reflect the degree of interest the girl has in you.
Although I’m not an expert in texting or knowing female psychology during romantic encounters I’ll surely share what I’ve learned over years of dating and asking my female friends.
So, if you’re interested to know what place you hold in her life then continue reading this blogpost!
The most popular hormone is the love hormone which is Oxytocin. That is present in both women and men. What does this hormone do? Well as the name suggests it establishes a bond between two people who then fall in love.
These hormones stay with you for a lifetime and when you’ve found the perfect one it turns into infinity. This hormone changes throughout your life and at every stage, it releases a different experience.
Scientists found that couples in the primary phases of heartfelt connection had more levels of oxytocin.
Here’s how the love hormone is processed and evolved:
Positive relationship rememberings
Lowers stress, pressure, and nervousness
Oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin are frequently implied as our “cheerful chemicals.” When you’re drawn to someone else, your brain unleashes dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin. This makes you feel a flood of good emotions!
Oxytocin influences guys and girls differently. For instance, for girls oxytocin helps distinguish who to become friends with and how to keep an eye on those connections. For guys, these hormones help them determine what’s worth fighting for and how to deal with that under stressful situations.
So for any relationship to grow, both guy and the girl have to feel a connection so that this hormone is released and they can connect and enjoy each other company.
Check out my other article on what he means When He Says You’re Pretty VS You’re Cute.
The Breakdown Of K And KK
I believe the phone was invented to share information easily through calls or messages but when the internet stepped in it changed the whole texting dynamic. Who knew one simple word could end up with countless explanations and meanings!
A simple Ok now has multiple meanings especially when you’re texting a girl. With the introduction of internet slang language, the words shortened and represented different meanings.
The same is the case with K and KK. A simple K means Ok and a KK means Okay Cool. But the context in which they are used is quite different.
You can never know what’s going through a girl’s mind because they experience mood swings as part of hormonal changes in their body.
But assuming you’re someone she has known for a while the double K would mean she is fine with talking with you daily and considers you as a likely friend. Whereas a K after anything you text to her is a big sign that she doesn’t enjoy your company and isn’t interested in continuing any means of communication with you!
So my dear pal, stop wasting your energy trying to please her and move on. This overthinking will only leave you hurting.
Difference Between Ok and Okkk?
I might have left you feeling a bit hopeless when I said to move on but I’ve got some great news for you. There are text messages that you should look for when you are interested to move on to the next step in your friendship.
These replies of Ok are when your overthinking and excitement can be justified and you can stay hopeful.
Just an Ok from a girl would mean
An Okkk from a girl would mean
She considers you as a friend and feels relaxed around you.
The triple K is her rash feelings for you to show she thinks that you are intriguing and needs to find out about you.
Even during a busy routine responding to you is a way of telling you she might be not that busy for a decent reply to you.
Giving additional opportunity to add one more K to her ordinary alright means she carves out you are worth her.
I’ve paid attention to you now don’t bother repeating it countless times.
Either it’s something that she achieved or you did that she’s excited to hear or tell about. This triple K reflects her curiosity to know and how important you are to her.
If you’re teaching her something then she holds you at a high place and responds to you in ok to let you know she understood what you explained.
On the off chance that both of you have made any arrangements of going out someplace, she will go along with you.
So here is a set of meanings for Ok and Okkk for you to keep track of and act accordingly.
And now you know when it’s alright to let those imaginations flourish.
What Does The Complete Okay Form Means?
Lastly, let’s not forget the complete form of Okay and what she means when she’s using it to text you. This okay also has some different interpretations and you need to have a close look at that as well to avoid future embarrassment.
Here is a list of interpretations when she is using the word Okay:
She looks up to you when she needs advice on a certain topic that you are well-versed with.
She isn’t giving much thought to what she feels when she texts you and uses it casually.
She’s either in a good mood or doesn’t have much to do so she prefers to respond to you with a full form of okay.
Maybe she’s someone who likes to use proper grammar and so couldn’t imagine writing okay any other way.
Apart from all these maybe it could simply mean you’re just overthinking and she just responded to your text without sounding rude. I know it can get confusing and irritating when you cannot understand how the other person feels about you and you’re scared to just approach them out of embarrassment or to get your heart broken.
But this shouldn’t stop you from experiencing and learning. It’ll take you time to know when she needs you and in what context is she talking to you but while you’re still evaluating the situation always stay hopeful and know if you’re not going to think about it now, then how will you take your action?
What Do “k,” “ok,” “okkk,” and “okay” mean, Particularly When a Girl is Replying to a Text Message?
If a girl responds with a “k,” it likely means she is a rocket scientist and is incredibly busy. She’ll research ways to get to Jupiter faster with the extra time she has from not typing the letter “o”.
She’s not really busy when she types “ok.” She is also regarded as a typical human being.
She has an unbelievable amount of time when she types “okk,” and she thinks the extra “k” doesn’t affect her costs in any way. She might be typing when she says “okay.” Please take care!
What Does KK Stand For?
KK stands for “OK.”
The abbreviation KK is a short form of the expression “Okay,” which is used to acknowledge and indicate that a message has been understood. KK is widely regarded as a safe or neutral way of responding to a message. It’s less formal than typing out the entire word “Okay” and more casual than a single letter K.
OK can also be said in the following ways:
The popularity of KK is most likely due to its ease of typing. According to some sources, it may have originated from the phrase “K Kewl” (meaning “OK, Cool”). It could also have come from the Morse Code (a communications system developed in the 1800s), where the letters KK stand for “End of message.”
It’s worth noting that the abbreviation KK is also the Korean equivalent of texting LOL (Laughing Out Loud). There are variations, as with LOL, but more Ks generally indicate harder or louder laughter.
To wrap up, I’d say:
We all crave relationships, the desire to be touched, looked at, and embraced is something we all humans are made up of, and it’s fine.
But knowing how someone is looking and talking at us matters. This helps to know how you wish to continue the relationship with them.
Similarly, I’ve explained to you in detail the different okay meanings of a girl and which one you should be keeping an eye on. If it’s just simple K then it’s a big alarm to remove your foot from her grounds because she just doesn’t care how you feel. But if it starts to stretch it’s then when you should decide to take the next step.